All you start talking about is the good times both of you share every day.And then, one fine day, just before hanging up he says, “Sweetheart, if only I wasn’t married, I would be so in love with you. The beginning of the end The real dark story unveils here.
Run some errands in his neck of the woods and drop in for a quick visit once in a while- but make it a time when you know he's home.~Texting is his favorite means of communication~Frequently saying "let me call you back" when you are on the phone with him. Invite to his home not forthcoming = something wrong alarm bells the one that gives them away - they don't answer their phone when you ring them, but do ring back a few minutes later. I was messeaging one fella for a bit that was only online to chat past midnight. Even if he wasn't married, there were enough flags flying, I could of been standing outside the UN.i recently met a guy on pof profile said single ..we met he did say he was seperated .his wife was still keen to keep things going ..called at all times he answered calls at all times he gave his home phone number and called me from that number he took me to his home to meet his dogs (his children )he stayed over all night and dayhe met and brought my kids christmas presents then ........................i started getting rude abusive text message and calls on my home phone from his "ex" and his daughter so my advice is to take it all with a pinch of (bucket of )salt his "ex " was on holidays while that was happening he could keep the image up but once she was home and found his phone the shit* hit the fan !!!!!
Some guys don't have home numbers (IE: men in military like myself) Only way to know is to make some pop in visits to his house. Lack of friends for you to meet = something wrong alarm bells ringing.
Best if you ask them outright.-won't give you home number-doesn't answer phone when he's at home or certain times of the day (only returns calls)-won't commit to date further out (only spontaneous)-after dating for a bit won't invite you over... It's okay to seek some additional validation for what your thoughts were. When this happened to me, the issue that gave me a bad gut feeling was calling him and he didn't answer on weekends. You're going to be given every possible "sign" to watch out for OP.
when you are on the phone or IM with him he suddenly "has to go" and ends the conversation quickly can only talk to you during certain times (i.e.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. 5 to or whatever , only after a certain time) emails are always early in the morning or late at night Mogrl42- Right, if the guy is honest.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Please share you experiences of how we can weed out the ones that are trying to fool us before we waste too much time on them. .if he is honest, he would not be online looking for dates.Most guys have cell phones and have no problem giving that out. For the original poster, you know there is something fishy because you feel it in your gut.One sign would be if they are not able to meet at weekends, or have difficulty during the week. If you didn't have that feeling, you would not have needed to ask others. Rose Chances are, if you are questioning his behavior, he's not being honest. The consensus appears to be that if you think there's the possibility that he's married, that's it, he's married.When you enter into a relationship with married men, inevitably you step into a world that can reveal a lot of joy, and yet, tear all the happiness away instantly.And this cycle of happiness and pain repeats itself until you can’t take it anymore.The realization – Being used by a married man When I was involved with a married man, I felt terribly used.